When thing go wrong in life or
things don't go the way we wanted them to go we get angry,upset and
waste time trying to find something or someone to blame it on. The only
thing about that is once you find somebody or something to blame it on
we waste timetrying to get back at that something or some that we think
caused the problem.
I want you to think about
this after all the anger , blame and trying to get even with somebody
you have now wasted a lot more time heading in the wrong direction.
Instead
of getting mad and getting even why not forget the blaming and the
anger. Instead why not think now that this has happened what can i do
about it. Even if the people is sorry they can never take it back any
way nor does your anger make it go away.
I
know it may seem hard for you at first but i say instead of the anger
and the blaming why not just take a minute and think what am i going to
do about what has happened. Instead of getting all anger let your mind
come up with ideas and ways you can get to moving in the right
direction.
In
life there will always be problems but it is up to you whether you
just sit around blaming people or things. Getting angry and wasting
time or you give yourself a break and decide what am i going to do now.
Do you want to move on or just continue in the same circles ? The choice is yours.
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