Monday, October 7, 2013

When thing go wrong in life  or things don't go the way we wanted them to go we get angry,upset and waste time trying to find something or someone to blame it on. The only thing about that is once you find somebody or something to blame it on we waste timetrying to get back at that something or some that we think caused the problem.

I want you to think about this after all the anger , blame and trying to get even with somebody you have now wasted a lot more time heading in the wrong direction.
Instead of getting mad and getting even why not forget the blaming and the anger. Instead why not think now that this has happened what can i do about it. Even if the people is sorry they can never take it back any way nor does your anger make it go away.
I know it may seem hard for you at first but i say instead of the anger and the blaming why not just take a minute and think what am i going to do about what has happened. Instead of getting all anger let your mind come up with ideas and ways you can get to moving in the right direction.
In life there will always be problems but it is  up to you whether you just sit around blaming people or things. Getting angry and wasting time  or you give yourself a break and decide what am i going to do now.
Do you want to move on or just continue in the same circles ? The choice is yours.

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